Elly J Tomlin
Author • Enneagram Guide • Soulful Growth Mentor
Books and guidance for those who are ready to grow, heal, and rise — through the Enneagram, spiritual awakening, and soul-led self-discovery.
Your Journey Begins Here
Whether you're beginning with the Enneagram or expanding into broader paths of personal and spiritual growth, Elly's books offer clear, compassionate guidance to support your evolution.
Through accessible teachings and real-world insights, you'll explore:
- Self-discovery through the Enneagram
- Spiritual connection through lunar cycles and divine feminine wisdom
- Practical tools for living a more intentional, authentic life
Each book is an invitation to deepen your understanding, awaken your potential, and step into a more empowered version of who you are meant to be.
About the Author
Meet Elly
Elly J Tomlin is a writer, lifelong student of human behavior, and passionate guide for personal growth. With over 30 years in media and leadership, she blends spiritual insight with practical wisdom to help readers better understand themselves and their relationships.
The Enneagram Evolution and The Enneagram Evolved are the first books in a growing series designed to empower self-awareness, healing, and authentic connection. Elly resides in Connecticut with her spouse and two sons, valuing time with family and friends above all else.
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Empower Your Journey of Personal and Professional Evolution.
Elly J Tomlin offers transformative coaching, workshops, and speaking engagements that blend self-discovery, leadership development, and spiritual growth.
Whether you're seeking personal breakthrough or team transformation, Elly's approach helps you align with your highest potential.
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The Enneagram Evolution
Discover Your True Self with The Enneagram Evolution
Are you ready to unlock the most powerful tool for personal transformation and meaningful connection?
The Enneagram Evolution by Elly J Tomlin is the essential beginner's guide to understanding your true personality type and using that insight to grow into the best version of yourself. With wit, warmth, and clarity, this book breaks down the Enneagram system in a refreshingly relatable way—perfect for those just beginning their journey into self-discovery.
Through detailed descriptions of all nine personality types, including wings, arrows, and triads, you'll gain a deep understanding of your strengths, struggles, and motivations. But this isn't just about learning who you are—it's about evolving. Each chapter includes practical tools, guided reflections, and real-life insights to help you embrace your growth path and improve your relationships.
Whether you're a perfectionist, a helper, a challenger, or somewhere in between, The Enneagram Evolution is your starting point for transformation—filled with humor, heart, and a healthy dose of self-awareness.
Begin your journey today. Discover your type, understand your patterns, and evolve with intention.
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The Tea on Elly
Curious what readers are saying? Here's the real talk — unfiltered reflections from people who have read The Enneagram Evolution and started their own transformation journey.
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"As someone new to the Enneagram, this book was an absolute game-changer. It's not just informative; it's a thrilling journey into the depths of self-discovery."
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"This book was an incredible experience, taking me on a deep dive into self-discovery. Initially, I wasn't the type to reflect deeply on who I am, but this book changed that."
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"I've read other books on the Enneagram, but The Enneagram Evolution is the first one that actually made everything click for me. The way Elly explains it is so refreshing — no judgment, just real insights and encouragement."
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